So you want to teach your preschooler how to write but have no clue where to start? What if you do it wrong? I don’t know about you but I am in a constant state of fear that I am going to ruin my kids. Today Heather will be sharing 5 tips for pencil grasp development with preschoolers that we can start doing now.
5 Tips for Pencil Grasp Development
A Little Background Info
Before becoming a stay at home mom and homeschool mom blogger, I worked as an Occupational Therapy Assistant in the public school system. So working with pencil grasp development at various ages and identifying the different stages of pencil grasp development was something I dealt with almost every day.
If a child is having problems with pencil grasp the best thing to do is go back and start at the beginning. Pencil grasp starts to develop at a very early age, around 3 months old.
You can check out my post on Typical Pencil Grasp Development on my blog. It has step by step pictures for each pencil grasp stage and names of the different types of grasp.
By the time your child hits preschool age (3-5), they should begin to develop a tripod (3 finger grasp) or quadruped (4 finger grasp).
If your child is struggling in using either of these types of grasps by the time they hit 4 to 5, focusing on correcting the grasp is important. Once a child hits 3rd grade or higher, any grasp or writing habits they have formed will be very hard to break.
I would focus on the tripod grasp first. However the quadruped grasp is also considered an efficient grasp, so if they revert to that one it isn’t a big deal. I use that type of grasp myself.
Practicing the correct types of hand grasp can be boring and also exhausting. I very much encourage hands-on activities for anything handwriting related to this page. The last thing you want to do is just practice handwriting over and over again with pencils and paper.
For more preschool writing ideas, I wrote an ebook, Basic Shapes for Beginners. It gives 30+ hands-on activity ideas for promoting good pre-writing skills which will also help with pencil grasp development.
5 Tips for Pencil Grasp Development with Preschoolers
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1. Use mini crayons
or pencils
I like to use the flip crayons from Handwriting Without Tears. For pencils, you can use the golf size pencils
. I also believe HWT sells mini pencils.
Crayola 64 Ct Crayons (52-0064)Handwriting Without Tears FC Flip Crayon Set, Multiple Color (Pack of 206)
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If budgets are a concern simply break regular size crayons in half and sharpen regular pencils down to about half their size. This gives the childless space for the fingers, which encourages them to use the correct amount of fingers on the writing utensil.
2. Avoid jumbo or large size crayons or pencils
The extra-large markers, crayons, pencils, etc. but too much space between the thumb and index finger when a child holds them. This will only confuse them when they try to use regular-sized writing utensils. It could cause them to hold the pencil or marker too hard because they feel like they don’t have a good grip on it. So stick to the regular sizes of all writing utensils.
3. Focus on Fine Motor Activities
I mentioned the hands-on activities above. Focusing on fine motor activities is key at this age. Don’t worry so much about letter formation or actual handwriting practice at this age. Focus on developing those fine motor skills which will lead to strong arms, hands, and fingers for handwriting. This Circus Fine Motor Activity is just one of the many things you can try.
4. Use “Go” Fingers on the Pencil, “Stop” fingers in the hand
This was a fun little sentence I would tell my kids if I noticed they weren’t using the correct grasp. Remember “Go fingers” on the pencil. “Stop fingers” stay in your hand. If the child struggled to keep their stop fingers in their hand, I would give them a pom-pom or coin to hold with their fourth and fifth fingers to remind them.
5. Use pencil grips
as a last resort
If you have tried everything and your child just isn’t getting it, trying some simple pencil grips could be beneficial. However, they should not be used for long-time use. The goal should be to wean the child off them to a correct grasp with no grips. Here is a very helpful post, Pencil Grips 101 if you aren’t sure which type of pencil grip to try.
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Other Pencil Grip Resources to Check Out
I hope this gives you a good starting point for encouraging good pencil grasp development with your preschoolers. For more detailed information I also have a post entitled Teaching Handwriting in your Homeschool for Preschoolers. Or you can get even more ideas from my Handwriting Skills and Activities Pinterest board.
Don’t forget to check out our collection of Preschool Letter Worksheets in the NSH Collective to encourage your young writers.
Natasha Mila says
All excellent ideas! You should make a post on how to fix the grip when it goes wrong. My favorite is by using a clothespin for those kids that need to grab on with all fingers!
alecia says
Thanks for the suggestion Natasha. Will try to do a post on that.
Theres Just One Mommy says
Great tips! I have been trying to work on my youngest’s pencil grasp for some time now, trying several tricks… I think I might try to stop showing him the tripod grasp and go with the quad one. It is closer to what he does already!
Alyssa @ Arts and Crackers says
I did not know that jumbo crayons were bad! My son has a hard time with holding a pencil and writing so I’ll have to try these with him. Thanks for sharing!
Jacqui says
Thank you for these tips. My little girl is two and a half; how much should I be correcting her when she is holding pens and pencils?
Tonya says
Thank you for the infomation! I have been doing this all wrong with my 4 yr old. This may be why he is struggling!
alecia says
You are so welcome. Let me know if it improves
Thaleia from Something2Offer says
My son has trouble holding a pencil correctly. I will have to try some of these.
Sharon says
Love love your very cute and exciting worksheets.